“HE SAID THE MARRIAGE IS OVER BECAUSE I DIDN’T GIVE BIRTH TO A MALE CHILD”.
SIR, ARE YOU GOD THAT GIVES CHILDREN?
This message made me cry yesterday.
MMM- MISTAKES MADE IN MARRIAGES- DISCOURSE 13
(Fixing Cracks and Dislocations in Marriages with Reminisce Umoh). Whatsapp +2348064355781. Join me in this Chariot.
Dear Reminisce,
My name is Emilia, a Port Harcourt based newly abandoned mother of 5 beautiful female children. Initially I wanted to have 3 children when I married my husband, but his strong demand for a male child made me to extend the number to see if I can bear him at least one. Right now I have been abandoned by my husband because the baby I delivered last week is still a female child.
Please guide me on what to do because right now life is so unkind with me. I cry all day and my children are emotionally unstable. They say they want their father.
Dear Emilia,
Hmmmm…. As I am reading this message tears is raining on my jaw. I feel so bad because I can understand your pulse and what you are going through right now. The veracity of your predicament is that you and your children still have a very bright future with or without the father. The God than sent them to this world has a purpose they must come and fulfill, not until accomplished, they are classified as a peculiar people, a royal she-priesthood and a chosen generation.
A lot of families follow tradition and forget the principles of God. Some will say I want a male so that he will become my heir and inherit the family’s name and properties.
Sir, when God said go into the world and multiply, he didn’t say, “Go into the world and create children”. He said go and marry and keep my commandments; have sex and I will give children. Please get this straight. God is the multiplier because he knows the statistics of the world through creation. He works in mysterious ways and understands the principle of growth. Even though science have argued that you can determine a child’s sex through timing and family planning, the fact still remains that GOD is the creator and can change anything at HIS will.
If God has blessed you with female children rejoice, because he has already given males to another family that will cleave to those your daughters by virtue of marriage and raise a clan that will form a new nation. Issues of my biological father’s name being blotted out shouldn’t worry a believer because we are already heirs of the father and join heirs with the son through the promise he gave to Abraham. Believers should know that we are not of this world but a passing through- what matters is the feeling and assurance of eternal relevance. Gen 3: 29, Romans 4: 13, Romans 8: 17.
Abraham knew this when Sarah couldn’t produce him an heir. He understood that children come from God. For that reason he said to Sarah: “Since you cannot produce me a male child, I will make a child of my maid to become my heir so he can inherit my name”. He didn’t send the wife away or remarry. When God saw his heart HE said no my dear friend, for honoring me, I will give thee a child that will be your heir. That’s why God gave him Isaac. Gen 15: 3-4.
The moral lesson here is that, when you humiliate your wife for not giving you male kids you are humiliating God because she is not the giver of children. And because you want to trust in your own strength God will not give you until you acknowledge him as the author and finisher- don’t try sharing HIS glory.
The frequently asked questions are:
1. MUST THE HEIR BE MALE CHILD AND ALWAYS?
My dear it is not about a male child bearing the name of the family so that it won’t vanish; if you build good legacies even when you die millions of people in the world will bear the name for you free of charge. Martin Luther’s name is still alive in the world even when many don’t know who the heir of that family is- so it’s not about bearing a son but the legacy you leave behind. If you look around the world you will see that some great men/women have just one or two daughters to their heir. Example, Bill Gates, Obama etc.
2. IS THERE ANY CONSEQUENCE FOR LOOSING MY FATHER’S NAME?
Absolutely none. If God does not give you a male child to come and inherit your father’s name it means HE is done with that name and wants to establish and extension of you in another family through your daughter.
3. DID CHRIST LEAVE ANY BIOLOGICAL HEIR BEFORE HE DIED?
The answer is NO. He had no biological heir but his death fetched Him millions of heirs by fellowship.
4. IS IT COMPULSORY THAT OUR FATHERS NAMES SHOULDN’T END WITH US?
Not at all. Names have nothing to do with souls- God is after souls not names. Some names our forefathers had were rooted in some evil and demonic covenants, due to the fact that they didn’t have Christian religion civilization then. Some bore names like python, snail, frog, ocean, pepper, sorrow, ghost, mermaid, drink etc.
Do you think it is the will of God for your innocent male child to inherit such names just to please your late father? Do you even know who your late father was and the demons he worshiped to bear those names? Do you know the covenants he had with those names?
Do you know if God is trying to divert your generation away from that lineage to raise a new family through your daughter that you are rejecting? Do you know that most female children attract favour to the family than male? FOOD FOR THOUGHT!
Fathers arise, lets save our marriages rather than dying in ignorance.
In my next discourse I will delve more into this because it’s large.
MMM- Mistakes Made in Marriages.
(All Rights Reserved)
Whatsapp +2348064355781
Reminisce Umoh- Coach.
SIR, ARE YOU GOD THAT GIVES CHILDREN?
This message made me cry yesterday.
MMM- MISTAKES MADE IN MARRIAGES- DISCOURSE 13
(Fixing Cracks and Dislocations in Marriages with Reminisce Umoh). Whatsapp +2348064355781. Join me in this Chariot.
Dear Reminisce,
My name is Emilia, a Port Harcourt based newly abandoned mother of 5 beautiful female children. Initially I wanted to have 3 children when I married my husband, but his strong demand for a male child made me to extend the number to see if I can bear him at least one. Right now I have been abandoned by my husband because the baby I delivered last week is still a female child.
Please guide me on what to do because right now life is so unkind with me. I cry all day and my children are emotionally unstable. They say they want their father.
Dear Emilia,
Hmmmm…. As I am reading this message tears is raining on my jaw. I feel so bad because I can understand your pulse and what you are going through right now. The veracity of your predicament is that you and your children still have a very bright future with or without the father. The God than sent them to this world has a purpose they must come and fulfill, not until accomplished, they are classified as a peculiar people, a royal she-priesthood and a chosen generation.
A lot of families follow tradition and forget the principles of God. Some will say I want a male so that he will become my heir and inherit the family’s name and properties.
Sir, when God said go into the world and multiply, he didn’t say, “Go into the world and create children”. He said go and marry and keep my commandments; have sex and I will give children. Please get this straight. God is the multiplier because he knows the statistics of the world through creation. He works in mysterious ways and understands the principle of growth. Even though science have argued that you can determine a child’s sex through timing and family planning, the fact still remains that GOD is the creator and can change anything at HIS will.
If God has blessed you with female children rejoice, because he has already given males to another family that will cleave to those your daughters by virtue of marriage and raise a clan that will form a new nation. Issues of my biological father’s name being blotted out shouldn’t worry a believer because we are already heirs of the father and join heirs with the son through the promise he gave to Abraham. Believers should know that we are not of this world but a passing through- what matters is the feeling and assurance of eternal relevance. Gen 3: 29, Romans 4: 13, Romans 8: 17.
Abraham knew this when Sarah couldn’t produce him an heir. He understood that children come from God. For that reason he said to Sarah: “Since you cannot produce me a male child, I will make a child of my maid to become my heir so he can inherit my name”. He didn’t send the wife away or remarry. When God saw his heart HE said no my dear friend, for honoring me, I will give thee a child that will be your heir. That’s why God gave him Isaac. Gen 15: 3-4.
The moral lesson here is that, when you humiliate your wife for not giving you male kids you are humiliating God because she is not the giver of children. And because you want to trust in your own strength God will not give you until you acknowledge him as the author and finisher- don’t try sharing HIS glory.
The frequently asked questions are:
1. MUST THE HEIR BE MALE CHILD AND ALWAYS?
My dear it is not about a male child bearing the name of the family so that it won’t vanish; if you build good legacies even when you die millions of people in the world will bear the name for you free of charge. Martin Luther’s name is still alive in the world even when many don’t know who the heir of that family is- so it’s not about bearing a son but the legacy you leave behind. If you look around the world you will see that some great men/women have just one or two daughters to their heir. Example, Bill Gates, Obama etc.
2. IS THERE ANY CONSEQUENCE FOR LOOSING MY FATHER’S NAME?
Absolutely none. If God does not give you a male child to come and inherit your father’s name it means HE is done with that name and wants to establish and extension of you in another family through your daughter.
3. DID CHRIST LEAVE ANY BIOLOGICAL HEIR BEFORE HE DIED?
The answer is NO. He had no biological heir but his death fetched Him millions of heirs by fellowship.
4. IS IT COMPULSORY THAT OUR FATHERS NAMES SHOULDN’T END WITH US?
Not at all. Names have nothing to do with souls- God is after souls not names. Some names our forefathers had were rooted in some evil and demonic covenants, due to the fact that they didn’t have Christian religion civilization then. Some bore names like python, snail, frog, ocean, pepper, sorrow, ghost, mermaid, drink etc.
Do you think it is the will of God for your innocent male child to inherit such names just to please your late father? Do you even know who your late father was and the demons he worshiped to bear those names? Do you know the covenants he had with those names?
Do you know if God is trying to divert your generation away from that lineage to raise a new family through your daughter that you are rejecting? Do you know that most female children attract favour to the family than male? FOOD FOR THOUGHT!
Fathers arise, lets save our marriages rather than dying in ignorance.
In my next discourse I will delve more into this because it’s large.
MMM- Mistakes Made in Marriages.
(All Rights Reserved)
Whatsapp +2348064355781
Reminisce Umoh- Coach.
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