CHOICE CONFLICT
CHOICE CONFLICT IN MARRIAGES.
GUYS: MARRY A WIFE, LEAVE THE VIRGIN.
LADIES: FOLLOW THE HEART DIGGER, LEAVE THE GOLD DIGGER.
MMM- MISTAKES MADE IN MARRIAGES PART 7
HELPING THE SINGLES TO AVERT ERRORS IN MARRIAGES
REMY UMOH- COACH
Last week whatsapp message…
Dear Reminisce,
My name is Benson. Am based in Port Harcourt, and I’ve been following your marriage hints on facebook for some time now. I really love your views towards marriage; irrespective of the fact that you are not married. I wonder how endowed you will be when you finally get married.
Pls help me out because I am about to get married but I don’t know how to make a good choice between the two girls I have in my row. One is a virgin. She has no carnal knowledge of a man since she was born. But she is an ajebutter; more of a mummy’s daughter and doesn’t have many qualities of a good wife. I have tried to teach her but she keeps complaining that her parents don’t stress her the way I do. The other one is not a virgin but she is a total package when it comes to home keeping and domestic administration. I love both of them and am confused about who to choose.
Dear Benson,
Thanks for reaching me through this medium to be of help and thanks for the compliment. Am glad that you are in love with both but in marriage you must choose one.
For me I would say that you leave the virgin and marry a wife. Marriage requires more than virginity, so delve for more qualities. Most wives are virgins, but many virgins are not wives. I know it’s an honor for a woman to be a virgin before marriage, but you need other attributes to compliment your desires in marriage.
Secondly, when virginity is in a multiple form like this it becomes a problem. If I may ask, what is your definition for virginity? Virginity means a lot in a marriage context. You are a virgin in anything you don’t know how to do. Apparently, she is a virgin to all she knoweth not.
Your request shows that the first girl is a virgin in almost everything. She is a sex virgin, a laundry virgin, cooking virgin, cleaning virgin, romance virgin, industrious virgin and many more. So that’s a problem in marriage because she must not be a virgin in other qualities you desire.
A good wife is not a virgin to all these qualities. Every virgin must posses the qualities of a good wife because virginity alone will not qualify you to be a good wife. The fact that the second girl had carnal knowledge of a man doesn’t condemn her before our merciful God, if only she will repent of her sins and format the past.
Go guy! Forgive her ignorance in the past, pop up the big question, fix the ring in her finger, draw her nearer to God and you will have a very blissful marriage.
Best of Luck.
LADIES- Leave the gold digger and go for the heart digger. The truth is that they both have a digger. Digger here means WANT. What do they want? One wants the heart and the other wants to extort the gold in you. Gold here means WEALTH. Most heart diggers are resourceful. They have something special that attracts your heart. They don’t force themselves on you but you yearn for them because of what you have seen in them. They are endowed with wisdom, knowledge, mental confidence, resourcefulness, entrepreneurial skills and fervency.
Heart diggers are in two forms. Guys with no prospects in life and naira loaded guys with no future.
1. The ones with no prospects are the dull brains; they are jobless and still searching for jobs as they grow older. They go into marriage because they feel that they are doing that desperate unmarried girl a favour. MOTIVE- to dig and scam what you have taken years to acquire.
2. The naira loaded guys are all the money miss road dudes. They have cash but lack wealth, because wealth is embedded in the mind; it’s the ability to create.
I saw a politician who was a local government chairman and today he is broke to a point that he can’t even pay the child’s school fees. That’s an error. This is somebody that had a net worth of nothing less than N50 million naira as at when he left office, but because there was no wealth in his mind he lavish the entire money.
Research shows that 10 years to come rechargeable vehicles will replace fuel vehicles. This will make oil price to drop by many decimals. Fiscal statutory allocations will become very small except we diversify the economy now. Political offices won’t be juicy again because allocation won’t be enough to feed the pay roll of the bureaucracy, talk less of politicians having the lavish and abundant revenue to share.
Many of them who do not know how to invest now will not be able to provide for their homes when time come. So ladies, if you are married to one of these SA, to the SA of another SA that works with the SA of the governor, better show them the way now before the entire family load becomes your responsibility in future. Save the grains now and revive entrepreneurial skills for financial leverage.
MMM- MISTAKES MADE IN MARRIAGES PART 7
(All Rights Reserved)
Whatsapp@ +2348064355781
Reminisce Umoh- 2017.
GUYS: MARRY A WIFE, LEAVE THE VIRGIN.
LADIES: FOLLOW THE HEART DIGGER, LEAVE THE GOLD DIGGER.
MMM- MISTAKES MADE IN MARRIAGES PART 7
HELPING THE SINGLES TO AVERT ERRORS IN MARRIAGES
REMY UMOH- COACH
Last week whatsapp message…
Dear Reminisce,
My name is Benson. Am based in Port Harcourt, and I’ve been following your marriage hints on facebook for some time now. I really love your views towards marriage; irrespective of the fact that you are not married. I wonder how endowed you will be when you finally get married.
Pls help me out because I am about to get married but I don’t know how to make a good choice between the two girls I have in my row. One is a virgin. She has no carnal knowledge of a man since she was born. But she is an ajebutter; more of a mummy’s daughter and doesn’t have many qualities of a good wife. I have tried to teach her but she keeps complaining that her parents don’t stress her the way I do. The other one is not a virgin but she is a total package when it comes to home keeping and domestic administration. I love both of them and am confused about who to choose.
Dear Benson,
Thanks for reaching me through this medium to be of help and thanks for the compliment. Am glad that you are in love with both but in marriage you must choose one.
For me I would say that you leave the virgin and marry a wife. Marriage requires more than virginity, so delve for more qualities. Most wives are virgins, but many virgins are not wives. I know it’s an honor for a woman to be a virgin before marriage, but you need other attributes to compliment your desires in marriage.
Secondly, when virginity is in a multiple form like this it becomes a problem. If I may ask, what is your definition for virginity? Virginity means a lot in a marriage context. You are a virgin in anything you don’t know how to do. Apparently, she is a virgin to all she knoweth not.
Your request shows that the first girl is a virgin in almost everything. She is a sex virgin, a laundry virgin, cooking virgin, cleaning virgin, romance virgin, industrious virgin and many more. So that’s a problem in marriage because she must not be a virgin in other qualities you desire.
A good wife is not a virgin to all these qualities. Every virgin must posses the qualities of a good wife because virginity alone will not qualify you to be a good wife. The fact that the second girl had carnal knowledge of a man doesn’t condemn her before our merciful God, if only she will repent of her sins and format the past.
Go guy! Forgive her ignorance in the past, pop up the big question, fix the ring in her finger, draw her nearer to God and you will have a very blissful marriage.
Best of Luck.
LADIES- Leave the gold digger and go for the heart digger. The truth is that they both have a digger. Digger here means WANT. What do they want? One wants the heart and the other wants to extort the gold in you. Gold here means WEALTH. Most heart diggers are resourceful. They have something special that attracts your heart. They don’t force themselves on you but you yearn for them because of what you have seen in them. They are endowed with wisdom, knowledge, mental confidence, resourcefulness, entrepreneurial skills and fervency.
Heart diggers are in two forms. Guys with no prospects in life and naira loaded guys with no future.
1. The ones with no prospects are the dull brains; they are jobless and still searching for jobs as they grow older. They go into marriage because they feel that they are doing that desperate unmarried girl a favour. MOTIVE- to dig and scam what you have taken years to acquire.
2. The naira loaded guys are all the money miss road dudes. They have cash but lack wealth, because wealth is embedded in the mind; it’s the ability to create.
I saw a politician who was a local government chairman and today he is broke to a point that he can’t even pay the child’s school fees. That’s an error. This is somebody that had a net worth of nothing less than N50 million naira as at when he left office, but because there was no wealth in his mind he lavish the entire money.
Research shows that 10 years to come rechargeable vehicles will replace fuel vehicles. This will make oil price to drop by many decimals. Fiscal statutory allocations will become very small except we diversify the economy now. Political offices won’t be juicy again because allocation won’t be enough to feed the pay roll of the bureaucracy, talk less of politicians having the lavish and abundant revenue to share.
Many of them who do not know how to invest now will not be able to provide for their homes when time come. So ladies, if you are married to one of these SA, to the SA of another SA that works with the SA of the governor, better show them the way now before the entire family load becomes your responsibility in future. Save the grains now and revive entrepreneurial skills for financial leverage.
MMM- MISTAKES MADE IN MARRIAGES PART 7
(All Rights Reserved)
Whatsapp@ +2348064355781
Reminisce Umoh- 2017.
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